Do Black Men Really Prefer Other Women?
- Taqiyya Muhammad
- Feb 5
- 3 min read
Black men don't love Black Women and treat other women of other races better than they treat us, because point blank period. WE DO NOT LOVE OURSELVES! This message is not for black women and men in happy healthy relationships, but you can take note! If as a black woman you have the feeling that you look waaaaay way better wearing makeup than you do just being your Natural Self! Or You find it extremely hard to go anywhere of importance, to your job, maybe to a function or event, or perhaps on a vacation! Heck some of us can't even leave out of our house without feeling the need to get done up with weaves and extensions. Or we have to get it straightened out, or blown out, anything to not have it looking the way it naturally does.... Or how about us, "ever so Conscious" sisters. The ones who always in a head wrap because, let's be honest, we're just too lazy, too busy, or we just don't care enough to do our hair on a consistent basis. So we throw on the head wrap under the guise of "this is our African Culture". Let's get it clear. Headwraps over dirty and unkept hair is NOT African Culture!!! Our Men are a direct reflection of the way we think act and feel about ourselves on an individual and collective level... And right now, one too many black men are looking in the other direction, because simply put, this is what we are mirroring.. Now this is not the moment for my mixed sisters, and women of other races to get cocky and start pointing fingers, because we are not yet talking about the reasons the men are coming but leaving twice as fast to some of y'all.. We understand all too well where these warped mentalities stem from, but we have been looking outside of ourselves and to other cultures to define the meaning of beauty to us, for waaaay too long...
Now please do not get my words twisted! There is absolutely nothing wrong with enhancing your beauty with weaves and makeup. I myself love to play in these. But my sister's, let's take a minute to be honest with ourselves.. If you find yourself able to capture the eyes and hearts of men with fakeness, but then can't find the confidence and love within yourself enough for when he finally meets the real you, then you have a major problem. Most times, women don't even realize this is what they are doing. But your self esteem dips, and men can feel that energetic shift. There is no pretending in the game of Polarity. It is a type of mass mental disorder called cognitive dissonance we are dealing with here. We have been so far removed from our roots that's we don't even know the type of fruit we are to bare anymore.. This is how far it has gone, to a point where both black women and men are out here with the audacity to utter that they don't want dark skinned children, when they themselves are dark skinned.. It is really shameful. There are many of us who won't utter it out loud, but this is how we truly feel... Take check! We have become some educated fools! Educated to hate ourselves....Even if it's not in the area of physical looks, there is something deep within keeping us in feelings of unworthiness! The Moral of the Story. It is time to take responsibility!
Ntrii Ntr
01/28/2022
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